There
is a story in the Bible where Jesus heals ten lepers of a disease they had
experienced for a very long time. In fact, if you suffered from the disease of leprosy, you
were ostracized and exiled from the rest of the population. It was not good to
be known to have leprosy in biblical times as you were truly considered an outcast who was
not to be associated with in any form or fashion by anyone. Jesus now comes along and
completely heals these ten of the disease (emphasis on the fact that it is the disease that made them
outcasts). Now one would think that the first thing that was to come out of their
mouths would have been the words “Thank You,” however, it was not to be so. In
fact, the ten left the scene with only one of the ten having the presence of mind to
come back and tell Jesus thank you. Jesus asked the one who did come back a
rhetorical question. He asked him “Weren’t there ten of you whom I healed?” Critically
think about that……one out of ten said thank you after being healed of a disease
that for all intents and purposes made them the living dead.
I fast forward to 2012 where I heard a story the other day of a young lady who desperately desired to
march in her college graduation exercises and needed $3,192 to be paid to the
university before it would allow her to participate in the graduation
ceremonies. Because the relationship between she and her father was not that good, the young lady had someone plead to her father on her behalf for
the final payment. In spite of the relationship not being a good one, the father paid the bill in full anyway because he loved her. The
father sent the daughter multiple text messages and email messages letting her know that
the bill had been paid and that she would indeed be able to “walk/march” in her
graduation ceremony. Sadly, just as in the parable of the ten lepers, the father heard no response from the daughter after having
paid her debt in full........... No response; Not one “Thank You.”
Both of these stories beg
the question “Is it that hard to say thank you?” I have posted to this very
blog on this topic of being grateful and giving thanks before and will continue
to do so because giving thanks and being grateful is that important. Research
shows gratitude heightens quality of life. Two
psychologists, Michael McCollough of Southern Methodist University in Dallas,
Texas, and Robert Emmons of the University of California at Davis, wrote an
article about an experiment they conducted on gratitude and its impact on
well-being. The results of
the study indicated that daily gratitude exercises resulted in higher reported
levels of alertness, enthusiasm, determination, optimism, and energy. In
addition, those in the gratitude group experienced less depression and
stress, were more likely to help others, exercised more regularly, and made
greater progress toward achieving personal goals.
Dr. Emmons who has
been studying gratitude for almost ten years and is considered by many to be
the world’s leading authority on gratitude and is author of the book, “Thanks!: How
the New Science of Gratitude Can Make You Happier” says that research
shows that those who practice gratitude tend to be more creative, bounce back
more quickly from adversity, have a stronger immune system, and have stronger
social relationships than those who don’t practice gratitude. He further points
out that “To say we feel grateful is not to say that everything in our lives is
necessarily great. It just means we are aware of our blessings.” Meister
Eckhart says it best when he says “If the only prayer you say in your life
is ‘thank you,’ that would suffice.”
In
closing, some years ago gospel great Shirley Caesar wrote a song titled “No
Charge" to address this issue of ungratefulness in this case the ungratefulness of a child. The lyrics to the song are as
follows:
My sister's little boy came in the kitchen one evening while she was fixing supper and he handed her a piece paper he had been writing on and after wiping her hands on an apron She took it in her hands and read it and this is what it said: For mowing the yard $5 And for making up my own bed this week $1 For going to the store $.50 And playing with little brother while you went shopping $.25 Taking out the trash $1 And for getting a good report card $5 And for raking the yard $2 Total owed $14.75
Well she looked at him standing there and expecting And a thousand memories flashed through her mind So she picked up pen and turned the paper over and this is what she wrote: For the 9 months I carried you holding you inside me - NO CHARGE For the nights I sat up with doctored you and prayed for you - NO CHARGE For the time and tears and the costs through the years There is NO CHARGE
When you add it all up the full cost of my love is NO CHARGE For the nights filled with grey And the worries ahead For the advice and the knowledge And the costs of your college NO CHARGE For the toys, school, and clothes And for wiping your nose There's NO CHARGE son
When you add it all the full cost of my love is NO CHARGE Well you know when I think about that I think about the day that Jesus went out to Calvary and gave his life as a ransom for me
When I think on the words "If Any Man be in Christ He's A New Creature" I like to think about the very minute that he shedded his blood My debt was paid in full And I want you to know today when you add it all up The full cost of Real Love is NO CHARGE
Be sure to thank God and anyone who
has helped you along your journey because the truth of the matter is, they did
not have to do it, but they did. When
someone has done something for you regardless of how large or how small the
very least you can do is say “Thank You.” As always, I look forward to your commentary
in the comment section of The Critical Thinker.
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